I was talking to this dude for about 6 months. He was friends with this boy I knew. I thought he was cute but I was too shy to say something. One day he hit me up, on facebook, yea I know. We had small talk and he asked if I wanted to go to a party. Knowing that I love to party I didn't refuse. We danced, flirted, and ended it with a small peck on the lips.
Quickly, we started to mess around. It was cool. No pressure, just two consenting young adults. When he wanted it he called when I wanted it I call. No pressure right. Then it slowed down. That was cool because I started to see like that's what it was only going to be about, sex, and I didn't really want that anymore. (Not saying I wanted him, but you get the point).
Time went by and I curiously asked him what was up and he had the nerve to say sex isn't fun for him anymore... Girls aren't on his level, they don't think outside the box.... Okay so you just straight up told me my sex was whack? Oh no he didn't! I laughed and said that's cool.
Like I said, I was losing interest as the months went on. He wasn't my type personality wise and I was just wasting my time with someone who could care less about ME...cool. Sometime after that, I got word that he messed with one of my friends, oh word? That's how it is? So I asked him about it, and of course, he lied so I asked him again. Bing! The disrespectful idiot he is had the nerve to say "yea but she wasn't all that either"...OH NO HE DIDNT AGAIN... Feelings semi hurt.
I was honest with him and He knew I was her friend! He had to see the pictures!
Being that I didn't claim him and never introduce him to many of my friends, this wasn't figured out 6 months ago. I didn't want to be his friend and I will NEVER GO BACK!! Not even if he was the only boy in the world!
Matter of Fact, he still checking for me 1yr later #byeboy you had your chance... Keep it pushing!
Deuces!
Quickly, we started to mess around. It was cool. No pressure, just two consenting young adults. When he wanted it he called when I wanted it I call. No pressure right. Then it slowed down. That was cool because I started to see like that's what it was only going to be about, sex, and I didn't really want that anymore. (Not saying I wanted him, but you get the point).
Time went by and I curiously asked him what was up and he had the nerve to say sex isn't fun for him anymore... Girls aren't on his level, they don't think outside the box.... Okay so you just straight up told me my sex was whack? Oh no he didn't! I laughed and said that's cool.
Like I said, I was losing interest as the months went on. He wasn't my type personality wise and I was just wasting my time with someone who could care less about ME...cool. Sometime after that, I got word that he messed with one of my friends, oh word? That's how it is? So I asked him about it, and of course, he lied so I asked him again. Bing! The disrespectful idiot he is had the nerve to say "yea but she wasn't all that either"...OH NO HE DIDNT AGAIN... Feelings semi hurt.
I was honest with him and He knew I was her friend! He had to see the pictures!
Being that I didn't claim him and never introduce him to many of my friends, this wasn't figured out 6 months ago. I didn't want to be his friend and I will NEVER GO BACK!! Not even if he was the only boy in the world!
Matter of Fact, he still checking for me 1yr later #byeboy you had your chance... Keep it pushing!
Deuces!
2 comments:
Lmaoooo I'm sorry that he hurt your feelings, but I dont feel like he was wrong. He could have went about things more delicately, and not lied when confronted but other than that he did what any of us would do. As nothing more than two consenting adults, with a fling and an understanding friends are fair game! He didn't need to make sure you were ok with him talking to your friends. And at the end of the day, you have to respect his honesty, if it was wack it was wack. There's nothing wrong with constructive criticism!
Yea that sucks.....but boys will be boys next time make sure ur friend knows!
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