Life is truly interesting and, you are never fully prepared for what things may come your way. Through this “wild card” life I’ve encountered my first experience of accepting reality over what I want. Sometimes it is just best to remain friends with a person rather than aim to make that relationship intimate. It is definitely easier said than done, but if you value a friendship with that person it is always the best decision if having “more” isn’t meant to be.
I have been a friend with a special person for a while, and most people would agree that nothing is better than a boyfriend who is your friend first. That is exactly what I wanted, but realistically what you want isn’t exactly what will work out. All relationships are messy, and things can end on horrible terms. In the spring of 2010 I faced a rude awakening that things would never be more than a friendship with this dude, but accepting that notion is very satisfying.
The acceptance process wasn’t an overnight thing, and it did involve a heated conversation that included nothing but the truth. I’ve learned through this situation that if that person is worth keeping a friend that conversation is necessary to have. In the end you both will win!
2 comments:
ahhh bitin' that bullet is the worst, but i guess it comes with maturity :-/
what happen to the good ole days when you cld just write a letter and ask if someone likes you? lol
this is why i never trust anyone that say oh "we are just friends" i heard trey songz lol
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