So it is safe to say the friend zone can become complicated if you’re not sure if you were placed in that area. The real question is what actions of a relationship separate a person from being in the friend zone or possibly being more than just that. From past experiences, actually almost all my worthwhile past experiences were all formed out of friendships. I would argue that’s the best route to go when starting off but the division lines are blurry when feelings begin to become involved. I personally no longer knew if I was still considered a friend or maybe something a little more that was too touchy to speak on. The worst thing to do is ruin a great friendship, and that has been my motive for not taking that next step with most guys all the time.
Some could argue that both “friends” and bf/gf relationships involves the same aspects. An extensive amount of one on one time can also be seen as casual dating without the technical title of “dating” being placed. When you find yourself consistently speaking to that person on a regular, and always wondering what they’re up to if you haven’t it is safe to say something more may exist. That is a clear sign of caring significantly more than you possibly would with any of your other friends. It is also possible that your “friend” is just very sociable so what you think may be different treatment really isn’t. Every situation is different but my best advice for you and myself is to go with your gut feeling. I’m usually right when it comes to my instincts, and the hardest part comes next which is figuring out what to once you FINALLY know.
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